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Socialization: Peer Relationships and Possible Isolation
Gifted children may struggle with emotional intensity (Fonesca, 2011, Lind, 2001; Sword,
2006a, 2006b; Webb, 2008),with executive functioning skills (Brown, 2006; Dawson & Guare,
2009; DeWall, Baumeister, & Vohs, 2009; Kaufman, 2010), self-regulation (Barkley, 1997;
Campbell, 2000; Cash, 2016; Guenole et al., 2015; Teeter, 1998;), and developing friendships
(Almack, 1922; Cohen, Duncan, & Cohen, 1994; Guo, 2006; Lee, Olszewski-Kublilius, &
Thomson, 2012; Peairs, 2010; Shapiro, Schneider, Shore, Margison, & Udvari, 2009; Webb,
Meckstroth, and Tolan, 1982). Up to 20% of children and youth, in general, may experience
significant emotional, or social challenges, while 30% to 40% of gifted children can be identified
with noteworthy difficulties in these areas (Armstrong, Desson, John, & Watt, 2018). According
to Armstrong et al. (2018) it is not uncommon for gifted children to set high standards for
themselves and when the expectation is not met, become critical in evaluating their own work
(Silverman, 1989, 2012; Whitmore, 1980). It is also not uncommon for gifted youth to destroy
what personal work created due to this perfectionism (Guignard, Jacquet, & Lupart, 2012;
LoCicero & Ashby, 2000; Mammadov, Cross, & Ward, 2018; Shaunessy, Suldo, & Friedrich,
2011). Gifted children procrastinate, as it is easier than failing a second time (Torrance, 1961,
1962). Placement with another student, or even in a cooperative group for learning, is quite
challenging and frustrating for gifted learners (Colangelo, 1991; French, Walker, & Shore, 2011;
Hollingworth, 1942; Silverman, 1993, Slavin, 1990). To the outsider, or inexperienced educator,
or even uninformed parent, a gifted child may appear to be arrogant, and disconnected from his or
her peers (Coleman, 1999; Delisle, 1992; Feldman, 1980; Gallagher, 1975; Gold, 1965; Hebert,
2002; Pepinsky, 1960; Reis & McCoach, 2002). Gifted learners are often focused on larger world
problems and lose interest in relationships without this focus (Hollingworth, 1942, Southern &